Interesting Ideas for November 2021

An older dog wearing glasses "reads" the newspaper while sitting in a chair, a puppy in their lap.While T. S. Eliot said that “April is the cruellest month”, I think that November runs a close second (except for Remembrance Day on November 11).  November is sandwiched between the colourful splendor and Thanksgiving celebrations of October and the joys that December’s holiday season can bring.  It is a month of grey, wet days, sopping leaves waiting to be raked and too-early holiday decorations (including pop star Christmas music) in public places.

For those of us who are grieving, November is also the month when we see holiday celebrations heading towards us, followed by cold winter months.  Spring feels a long time away.

Tools for the Holidays

Holiday season string of coloured lightsIn this edition of Interesting Ideas, I’ve provided links that present tools to help us to cope during this challenging time of the year.  In this Psychology Today article there is a list of useful ideas that may make the holiday season easier.  I especially appreciate that they are transferable to any ‘celebration’ or ‘special event’.

Do you have a friend who is grieving?

A friend comforts another who is upset in a public place.As many of you know, I’m a big fan of Megan Devine and her book “It’s Ok That You’re Not Okay”.  Megan also has a website and podcast which is worth visiting on a regular basis.  Ms. Devine’s last few posts have been about grieving during the holidays. Her recent blog post on supporting a grieving friend is very good.  If you are grieving this is worth sharing with friends as a way of asking for support.

More information about grief…

A cartoon of a person listening to audio on headphones outside. A cat does the same, laying down next to them.Finally, if you are looking to hear from others who are steeped in and knowledgeable about grief, I recommend the Grief is a Sneaky Bitch podcast.  Lisa Keefauver, MSW, is a social worker, educator, writer, grief guide, and widow.  In her podcast, she interviews grievers, educators and other grief experts to provide a wealth of information.

As we roll out of November and into December, I wish you peace and comfort.  Stay safe and be well.

 

 

 

 

 

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